Besides his daddy, K.C. is survived by his baby sister Chelsea. Chelsea has been going from room to room looking for you and meowing for you. She misses her big brother terribly, so much so, that it is breaking daddy's heart all over again. You were a very loving and protective big brother to Chelsea. You helped train your little sister to stay on the pavement when we would go OUTSIDE among just being there for her all these years.

Son, we had over 17 years of unconditional love, life and happiness together. I feel like a huge part of my heart and soul crossed with you over Rainbow's Bridge last night. You would always be patiently waiting for me to come home from work each day in the foyer. I'm going to miss seeing my buddy waiting for me. There are so many funny stories, scary stories and just plain stories only a Cat Daddy would appreciate and understand, and we went through most of them last night. But the last one needs to be documented.

"Last night you spent the last forty minutes in daddy's lap. I talked to you in that loving way I always do when you look into my eyes. I told you how much you mean to me and have meant to me and your little sister all these years. Your mouth moved several times but no meow came out--a silent meow, you were so weak you could hardly move. That's O.K., I knew you were saying good bye to me too. When your breathing became labored around 9:20 p.m. I looked into your moist eyes through my moist eyes and I told you...."It's O.K. son, you can cross over now your job here is done". Your little sister was beside you with me when you slipped away. A few minutes afterwards I heard your little sister upstairs let out a loud crying and long meow". Daddy is going to be selfish and keep your "baby-doll" as a momento. You will be cremated today so that you can return home with us so that we can continue time's journey together.

Thanks for your unconditional love and always being here for me. Your memory will live on my heart forever. I hope that you have plenty of fresh "crunchies", tuna, and water along with a nice warm blanket. One day, I will be there to give you a good belly-rub.

Bye-bye son, I love you so much!

Daddy

UPDATE: March 19, 2013. You came home today. Your ashes was delivered today in a nice "kittie urn" with your name plate on it. You have an honored place in the living room so that you can still be part of the family. Daddy

UPDATE: July 17, 2013. HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY SON! Well K.C. today would have been your 18th birthday. Me, Chelsea and your big sister Ashley celebrated by getting your favorite food in the world "FRIED CHICKEN". We also sang "Happy Birthday" and played video's of you moving your baby-doll around the house last year. We all deeply miss you little man, and our home is just not the same. Chelsea sends a loving hiss and a purr to you--she really misses you. Please watch out for us and I can't wait to see you on the other side of the Rainbow's Bridge. Daddy

UPDATE: March 17, 2014. Although today is the first anniversary of your passing, I visited you in a very precious and detailed dream of you Saturday night. I can't believe it's been a year already since you crossed the Rainbow Bridge. Your little sister Chelsea and I watched some of your videos last night and had a good time laughing at some of your antic's. My heart still aches tremendously with you being gone. It may be sad to say but losing you last year hurt as much as when I lost your Grandma, my mother. I still have you in my heart and thoughts, I just wish I had you in my lap curled up with that very loud purr of your's. Always know that your daddy loves you very, very, very much little boy. With tears in my eyes I will say so long for now. We love you little man. Daddy

UPDATE: July 17, 2014. HAPPY BIRTHDAY K.C. ALEXANDER, the big number "19"....Daddy's little boy!!!!! Your little sister Chelsea and I sang you Happy Birthday first thing this morning. I miss you so much, I have tears welling in my eyes as I typed this message to you. We miss our K.C. so much. I played the videos of you meowing and playing last night for Chelsea and she of course starting meowing back. I know she remembers her big brother. I hope you don't mind, but Chelsea is now playing with your "baby-doll". She really enjoys it, and because it has your scent on it I'm sure it reminds her of you. Don't worry, I won't let her damage it. It's just nice to see it out because it reminds me of you. You are so very missed. You left a very large hole in my heart that hasn't healed to this very day. I full expect to see my little man waiting for me when I cross the Rainbow Bridge when it is my time to join you. I know I will have a never ending smile from ear to ear on my face when I see you again. I can't wait to hear that loud-diesel-engine PURR of your's. I love you so very much my little baby son. I know you are watching over me and Chelsea. We love you little man--Daddy.

UPDATE: March 17, 2015. Good morning K.C., it's been two years today since you crossed over the Rainbow Bridge and left a huge hole in your Daddy's heart. Time may heal all wounds, and maybe its going to take a little longer--but not having you with me still has left a dark cloud over your Dad. I miss you so much even after two years. Your little sister Chelsea and I said a little memorial for you this morning with your ashes. I still occasionally talk to you and I know when I baby talk to you I can hear a faint purr and your distinctive meow. K.C. always know that you were loved and are still loved by your family. I know one day I will get to see you again and hold you in my arms and hear your very loud purr. But until then I know that you are having fun playing with all of the other animals. Daddy loves you and I will be talking to you on your birthday. Daddy loves you little man!

UPDATE: July 17, 2015. HAPPY BIRTHDAY K.C. ALEXANDER--aka. daddy's little man. Well, little boy today would have been your 20th birthday. As always on your birthday your little sister Chelsea and I sang you "Happy Birthday" first thing this morning. I know Chelsea still misses you, and I know I do. The void you left in our lives and in our hearts when you crossed over the Rainbow Bridge still hasn't healed. I miss you so very, very much even after 2 and a half years. You were my treasured little boy, and the years and the memories we shared will always be with me. I just thank God that he gave me almost 18 wonderful years with such a heaven-sent "baby angel" as you. Always know that you are in our hearts and in our thoughts. I know that when God calls me home that I will see you in heaven, and then, I will have my precious little man with me for eternity. Daddy loves you very much K.C. and I will see you in my dreams.

UPDATE: March 17, 2016. Good morning sweet Baby Angel. Daddy sure wishes that the saying "time heals all wounds" were actually true. After three years the hole you left in my heart still hasn't healed. I want my little boy back. Your little sister Chelsea still plays with your toys and we still watch your videos of you being a clown. I love you little baby boy. You are still in my heart.

UPDATE: March 17, 2017. Good morning my little man. It doesn't seem like its been four years ago that you earned your baby-wings and went to wait for me and your little sister across the Rainbow Bridge. We watch your video's all the time and I know your little sister misses you as much as your Daddy. I was hoping that the huge hole you left in my heart would have healed by now but it hasn't. You always were and always will by my little boy, my little man--my baby angel. I love you and miss you more with each passing day. Knowing that I will once again see you again on my way to heaven actually makes me look forward to that day even more now. It's hard carry on when I still hear your very loud purr and I hear your loving meows. Your baby sister says hello and she loves you. I look forward to seeing you one day my little boy. Daddy loves you.

UPDATE: July 17, 2017. HAPPY BIRTHDAY SON! Today would have been your 22nd birthday. Your little sister Chelsea and Daddy will sing Happy Birthday to you tonight and help celebrate your special day. Your daddy loves you so much and I miss you dearly little boy. I hope you're doing great hanging out at the Rainbow Bridge waiting on your little sister and Daddy to come. You will always have a very special place in my heart baby son. I miss you so much. Love Daddy.

UPDATE: March 17, 2018. Good morning baby son. It doesn't seem like its been five years since you left Daddy and your little sister. Even after all these years you left a giant hole in my heart that still hasn't healed and probably never will. You were such a good, sweet and precious little boy and the best big brother any sister could have. We still watch your videos of you moving the "baby doll" and you meowing at squirrels outside the window. Your little sister is getting up in age now. I know she still misses her brother. She sleeps with your baby doll in her bed. We love you very much little man. I know deep in my heart that we will all be together again one day laughing and playing and feeling the love we all had. Thanks for watching down over your little sister Chelsea. Daddy loves you very much still little boy. I know heaven is a much better, funny and loving place since you are there. Love, Daddy.